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Archive for November 2010


Ventillation

November 30th, 2010 — 12:41pm

I’m thankful that the women’s bathroom at my work has a good ventilation system. I was in there 30 minutes ago and had to hold my breath, and I just went in again (thank you, pregnancy bladder) and all was clear.

Why can’t all bathrooms have a good ventilation system? I’ve worked at places where if someone stunk up the bathroom, the smell would linger for hours.

Also, this post should alert you to one of the YAYs I have for having a boy: potty humor. Sorry, Dad. I still think potty humor is funny. ;)

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It’s a Boy!

November 27th, 2010 — 10:19pm

We found out on Wednesday (the day before Thanksgiving) that we’re having a boy! The sonogram picture that shows his junk will come later.

The sonogram tech double checked that we wanted to be told the gender when she got a good view of the genital region. However, girls don’t usually have anything sticking out between their legs, so I said, Let me guess? It’s a boy? She confirmed it’s a boy. Either the tech got a good shot or my boy will have at least one thing to be proud of.

The first thought that came to my mind was YES! A boy! When we’re on a road trip and he needs to pee, we’ll just pull over to the side of the road! The second thought that came to my mind was, Oh, at some point I’m going to look at my husband and wonder why our son is taking 30 minute showers and why I seem to run out of lotion so fast.

We’re on the hunt for baby names because we had a girl name picked out (Piper), but had stalled on the boy name. However, we have some good contenders! Of course, the last name has to be taken into account when picking out a name, and our last name is Collins. Here’s some ideas:

  • Thomas
  • Colin
  • Harper
  • Phil

I’m leaning towards Harper as a nod to one of my favorite publishers. Not sure about a middle name yet.

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A few thoughts on The Reader by Bernhard Schlink

November 22nd, 2010 — 11:05pm

the reader

The Reader
by Bernhard Schlink
218 pages
Published 1995 (1997 in the United States)
Fiction

The Reader by Bernhard Schlink was picked by my book club. I was excited since this book was already on my radar. I won’t be doing a normal review, but instead just giving you a few thoughts because it’s been so long between when I actually read the book and right now typing up this post.

A quick sketch of the plot: It’s set sometime in the 1960s in Germany. Michael Berg meets Hanna when he’s 15 and she’s 40. They start a sexual relationship that goes on for a while, until one day Hanna just disappears. Their relationship was very sexual, and Hanna had Michael read stories to her. When Michael next sees Hanna, he’s a young law student and Hanna is on trial for Nazi war crimes.

There’s not a whole lot of plot in this book; it’s really a character driven novel. I was worried that I wouldn’t like the 15-year-old with a 30-year-old, but it wasn’t icky, and obviously no one would condone it, but it just *was*. A friend (hi, Becky!) pointed out that the author didn’t *have* to use a 15-year-old boy. He could have just as easily been 17 or 18, making it far less objectionable, and the relationship would have still meant just as much to Michael.

I really liked this book. I thought Hanna and Michael had an interesting dynamic that lent itself to a book club discussion. I thought the story was beautiful and tragic, though I don’t think the story was romanticized at all. If anything, the narrator was unemotional, and merely told the story. No sentimentality leaked in, so it was an easy book to stay unattached to. I know that seems counter-intuitive to a good book, but I really think it works here.

One thing that frustrated me in the book club discussion was when I asked whether people thought the story was happy or sad or neither. I asked this question because of the following passage:

For the last few years I’ve left our story alone. I’ve made peace with it. And it came back, detail by detail and in such a fully rounded fashion, with its own direction and its own senses of completion, that it no longer makes me sad. What a sad story, I thought for so long. Not that I now think it was happy. But I think it is true and thus the question of whether it is sad or happy has no meaning whatsoever.

So I ask people whether they thought the story was happy or sad or neither, and this one member says it was sad. And I asked her why, even though the narrator is telling us it’s really *not* a sad story. And she has no reason, just that she thinks it’s a sad story. I know I’m uptight, but is it really unreasonable to ask people to back their opinions and feelings up with actual facts and passages from the book??

All that to say, I loved The Reader.

Rating: 90 out of 100

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Off the Wagon – Books I’ve Bought

November 21st, 2010 — 3:01pm

I’m always thinking about things I want to share with you (and by that I mean, what won’t make you run screaming, because I think I’ve demonstrated I’m pretty much open to sharing everything, and just wait until I start sharing all about my labor and the placenta and what I do with that placenta … HAHAHA!! Just kidding. I won’t share too much about the labor.), and it occurred to me that I buy a heckuva lot of books, but never tell you what I’ve bought! I tell you what makes me pee my pants, I tell you what I’ve finally read, and sometimes I talk about what I’m reading, but I never tell you what I’ve bought. And hoo boy, I buy a lot of books. In fact, the ONLY reason I get rid of books is so I can bring more books in. I’m nothing if not pragmatic.

So yesterday I was hanging out with Lenore, and in between a couple of things, we stopped at my local bookstore, Copperfield’s Books. There were a few books I wanted to buy, so here’s what I picked up:

Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter by Tom Franklin

Here’s the description of the book:

Edgar Award-winning author Tom Franklin returns with his most accomplished and resonant novel so far—an atmospheric drama set in rural Mississippi. In the late 1970s, Larry Ott and Silas “32″ Jones were boyhood pals. Their worlds were as different as night and day: Larry, the child of lower-middle-class white parents, and Silas, the son of a poor, single black mother. Yet for a few months the boys stepped outside of their circumstances and shared a special bond. But then tragedy struck: Larry took a girl on a date to a drive-in movie, and she was never heard from again. She was never found and Larry never confessed, but all eyes rested on him as the culprit. The incident shook the county—and perhaps Silas most of all. His friendship with Larry was broken, and then Silas left town.

More than twenty years have passed. Larry, a mechanic, lives a solitary existence, never able to rise above the whispers of suspicion. Silas has returned as a constable. He and Larry have no reason to cross paths until another girl disappears and Larry is blamed again. And now the two men who once called each other friend are forced to confront the past they’ve buried and ignored for decades.

Hello, darkness! Even the cover’s dark! I’m hoping this is an unputdownable book, otherwise it’ll have to wait until after the baby’s born.

Skippy Dies by Paul Murray

It’s no spoiler to acknowledge that Skippy, the main character in Murray’s second novel, does indeed die, since the boy is a goner by page 5 of the prologue. Following his character’s untimely demise, Murray takes the reader back in time to learn more about the sweetly engaging Skippy—a 14-year-old student at a historic Catholic boys’ school in Dublin—and his friends Ruprecht, a near genius who is passionately interested in string theory; Mario, a self-styled lothario; and Dennis, the resident cynic. We also meet the girl with whom Skippy is hopelessly in love, Lori, and his bête noire, Carl, a drug-dealing, psychopathic fellow student who is also in love with Lori. The faculty have their innings, too, especially the history teacher Howard (the Coward) Fallon, who has also fallen in love—he with the alluring substitute teacher Miss McIntyre. And then there is the truly dreadful assistant principal, Greg Costigan. In this darkly comic novel of adolescence (in some cases arrested), we also learn about the unexpected consequences of Skippy’s death, something of contemporary Irish life, and a great deal about the intersections of science and metaphysics and the ineluctable interconnectedness of the past and the present. At 672 pages, this is an extremely ambitious and complex novel, filled with parallels, with sometimes recondite references to Irish folklore, with quantum physics, and with much more. Hilarious, haunting, and heartbreaking, it is inarguably among the most memorable novels of the year to date. –Michael Cart

I’ve had many, many friends recommend this already. Not sure when I’ll get to it, but it seemed like a must have!

Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand

From the 1936 Olympics to WWII Japan’s most brutal POW camps, Hillenbrand’s heart-wrenching new book is thousands of miles and a world away from the racing circuit of her bestselling Seabiscuit. But it’s just as much a page-turner, and its hero, Louie Zamperini, is just as loveable: a disciplined champion racer who ran in the Berlin Olympics, he’s a wit, a prankster, and a reformed juvenile delinquent who put his thieving skills to good use in the POW camps, In other words, Louie is a total charmer, a lover of life–whose will to live is cruelly tested when he becomes an Army Air Corps bombardier in 1941. The young Italian-American from Torrance, Calif., was expected to be the first to run a four-minute mile. After an astonishing but losing race at the 1936 Olympics, Louie was hoping for gold in the 1940 games. But war ended those dreams forever. In May 1943 his B-24 crashed into the Pacific. After a record-breaking 47 days adrift on a shark-encircled life raft with his pal and pilot, Russell Allen “Phil” Phillips, they were captured by the Japanese. In the “theater of cruelty” that was the Japanese POW camp network, Louie landed in the cruelest theaters of all: Omori and Naoetsu, under the control of Corp. Mutsuhiro Watanabe, a pathologically brutal sadist (called the Bird by camp inmates) who never killed his victims outright–his pleasure came from their slow, unending torment. After one beating, as Watanabe left Louie’s cell, Louie saw on his face a “soft languor…. It was an expression of sexual rapture.” And Louie, with his defiant and unbreakable spirit, was Watanabe’s victim of choice. By war’s end, Louie was near death. When Naoetsu was liberated in mid-August 1945, a depleted Louie’s only thought was “I’m free! I’m free! I’m free!” But as Hillenbrand shows, Louie was not yet free. Even as, returning stateside, he impulsively married the beautiful Cynthia Applewhite and tried to build a life, Louie remained in the Bird’s clutches, haunted in his dreams, drinking to forget, and obsessed with vengeance. In one of several sections where Hillenbrand steps back for a larger view, she writes movingly of the thousands of postwar Pacific PTSD sufferers. With no help for their as yet unrecognized illness, Hillenbrand says, “there was no one right way to peace; each man had to find his own path….” The book’s final section is the story of how, with Cynthia’s help, Louie found his path. It is impossible to condense the rich, granular detail of Hillenbrand’s narrative of the atrocities committed (one man was exhibited naked in a Tokyo zoo for the Japanese to “gawk at his filthy, sore-encrusted body”) against American POWs in Japan, and the courage of Louie and his fellow POWs, who made attempts on Watanabe’s life, committed sabotage, and risked their own lives to save others. Hillenbrand’s triumph is that in telling Louie’s story (he’s now in his 90s), she tells the stories of thousands whose suffering has been mostly forgotten. She restores to our collective memory this tale of heroism, cruelty, life, death, joy, suffering, remorselessness, and redemption. (Nov.) -Reviewed by Sarah F. Gold (from Publisher’s Weekly)

Seabiscuit blew me away, and I don’t expect any less from Unbroken. Hillenbrand is a masterful storyteller, as she kept me on the edge of my seat during Seabiscuit. I really can’t wait to read this one!

The Little Stranger by Sarah Waters

Waters (The Night Watch) reflects on the collapse of the British class system after WWII in a stunning haunted house tale whose ghosts are as horrifying as any in Shirley Jackson’s The Haunting of Hill House. Doctor Faraday, a lonely bachelor, first visited Hundreds Hall, where his mother once worked as a parlor maid, at age 10 in 1919. When Faraday returns 30 years later to treat a servant, he becomes obsessed with Hundreds’s elegant owner, Mrs. Ayres; her 24-year-old son, Roderick, an RAF airman wounded during the war who now oversees the family farm; and her slightly older daughter, Caroline, considered a natural spinster by the locals, for whom the doctor develops a particular fondness. Supernatural trouble kicks in after Caroline’s mild-mannered black Lab, Gyp, attacks a visiting child. A damaging fire, a suicide and worse follow. Faraday, one of literature’s more unreliable narrators, carries the reader swiftly along to the devastating conclusion. (from Publisher’s Weekly)

The Little Stranger was picked for January by my real life book club (that for a while called themselves Gin & Phonics, though no gin was ever consumed). It’s a little long, but I’ve got my fingers crossed that it’s unputdownable. Otherwise, I won’t be able to read it in time, 6-8 weeks advance notice or not.

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Let me know what you thought of these books! Also, feel free to share what books you’ve bought recently. If you do a post about what books you’ve bought, you can link to it here:

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Less Time to Read Has Changed My Reading

November 19th, 2010 — 10:37pm

I’ve mentioned before that I’m working two jobs. Ironically, when I quit my last second job shortly before I got married, I SWORE I’d never have  a second job again. But the perfect situation came up and who am I to turn down work? And not only am I working two jobs, but I recently got a promotion at work that keeps me going so hard that I’m usually there past 5pm (not much, but 15-30 minutes most days).

Before I was pregnant, I took the bus for almost 2 years. I found that I gained a buttload of reading time and I enjoyed not having to worry about driving to and from work, which more than made up for the inconvenience of not having a car at my disposal during the day. But then when I got pregnant, with many more doctor appointments and then the promotion (which came weeks after I found out I was pregnant), I figured it’d be easiest to start driving again.

I lost the reading time that I’d gained by taking the bus.

Now I’m working so much that a typical day looks something like this: 6am Get out of bed and dawdle around the house and check email and then get ready for work. I’m not a morning person so it takes me a while to get moving. Anywhere from 7:30am to 8:00am I’ll leave the house for work. I work from 8am to 5pm, though I usually leave the office closer to 5:15 or 5:30pm. I’ll arrive home between 5:30 and 5:45pm and start making dinner. We eat dinner around 6:30pm or 7pm. Once we’ve eaten, I sit down at my computer to work on TLC. I work on TLC stuff until 10pm or later, at which time I go to bed. That’s my schedule Monday through Friday. On Saturdays and Sundays I get up around 9am and work all day until it’s time to go to bed at 10pm. Of course, I stop for lunch and I shower at some point and some weekends I have to do errands. Otherwise, that’s my schedule.

So to say I don’t have much reading time is an understatement. I try to read at work during lunch, but that happens at best 2 times a week. I insist on reading when I get in bed, but with the kind of schedule I’m keeping, I can only get through a few pages before I zonk out.

I used to think that if you said you didn’t have time to read that that was just bullshit. Now I think it’s possible not to have time to read no matter how much you really want to do it.

But instead of not reading, instead of giving up books for TV or just…nothing, I’ve decided that I need to change my reading habits while I’m in this situation. So the books I’ve decided I’ll read until I’m able to quite my day job (HELLO MARCH 26TH!) have to be exciting, compelling, and unputdownable. So far, those have been mysteries, though the book I’m reading right now, The Bright Forever, actually matches my criteria. Unfortunately, this leaves out books that take some time to develop, books that require a little more effort.

When I first made this choice, I was totally bummed out. My books of choice are literary fiction, and I have no problem with a book that requires more effort and starts off slow. Those books often have the best payout. But with the little snippets of time that I’ve got, with the little amount of energy I have left when I go to bed in the evening, I had to do something. I had to do something that would make it possible for me to continue reading.

So I’ve had to set aside a couple of books that were good but that became burdensome because I could only read a few pages at a time. The good part of this is that I picked up a book I’ve been meaning to read for years and just never got around to.

I’m wondering if you’ve ever experienced a lack of reading time and how you dealt with it. I’d also love your suggestions for books that are, for lack of a better word, compulsively readable. I need books that I don’t want to put down from page one and that make me want to stay up late into the night, no matter how tired I am. Help a girl out?

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