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Review – The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf

August 19th, 2009 — 11:27pm

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The Weight of Silence
by Heather Gudenkauf
373 pages
Published July 28, 2009
Fiction

In The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf, Calli, a seven-year-old with selective mutism, and her friend and neighbor, Petra, who is also Calli’s voice, go missing on the same night. Calli’s mother, Antonia, is married to a drunk, abusive husband, and has a history with the sheriff who is investigating the disappearance. Petra’s father, Martin, is determined to find the girls, and he is convinced that it was Calli’s father who took both of the girls.

The story is told in alternating viewpoints from Antonia, Martin, Calli, Petra, Deputy Sheriff Louis, and Ben, Calli’s brother. Heather Gudenkauf utilizes this method well and is able to dispense the story and history of everyone involved. Sometimes when you have this many characters, it becomes a bit cumbersome. All the characters were handled deftly, as their history and the current situation was doled out. The author has a great writing style that tells a story very simply, but very well. I could picture everything, and the situations with Calli and her dad left me with adrenaline pumping through my body.

Heather Gudenkauf does an amazing job of ratcheting up the suspense in the first chapter and keeping you on the edge of your seat all the way through to the end. I would have read this book in one sitting if I’d had enough time, but unfortunately my day job got in the way of my reading. It’s really a race against time as the families and sheriff try to find the girls, hoping they haven’t been taken by the same person who took and killed a little girl two years ago.

Calli and Petra have a really sweet relationship. Petra met Calli after she’d already gone mute, and still she befriended her. Petra’s disappearance and her absence as a narrator add to an already tense situation.

Switching topics slightly, there is a passage that I wanted to share with you, more because of what it talks about than because it shows the authors writing. But I think the author makes a great point and since I agree, I’ll share it with you. :)

Antonia’s mom is talking to Antonia about marriage:

People say that being a mother is the most important job you will ever have. And it is very important. But it is even more important, I believe, to be a wife, a good wife….I don’t mean you have to be a floor mat. That not what I mean at all. I mean, who you choose to walk with through life will be the most important decsion that you will ever, ever make. You will have your children and you will love them because they are yours and because they will be wonderful….But who you marry is a choice. The man you choose should make you happy, encourage you in following your dreams, big ones and little ones.”

I know I haven’t done the book justice. So please just believe me when I say I loved this book and will be passing it around to everyone in my book club.

Rating: 95 out of 100

You can buy The Weight of Silence at a discount! Use the coupon code SILENCE10 at eharlequin.com for tlc logo resized10% off of The Weight of Silence, and it’s effective aug  1 – sept 15 at eHQ for print or digital.

Make sure you check out Heather Gudenkauf’s website.

I want to thank TLC Book Tours for letting me be a part of this tour. Check out the rest of the tour stops for The Weight of Silence.

Other reviews:

Fizzy Thoughts

Book, Line, and Sinker

Virtual Wordsmith

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Review and Giveaway – The 19th Wife by David Ebershoff

May 17th, 2009 — 10:06pm

The winner of The 19th Wife is comment #47, Rebecca Cox! Congratulations, Rebecca! I’ll email you to get your mailing address. Thank you all for your great comments!

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The 19th Wife
by David Ebershoff
514 pages
Published August 5, 2008
Fiction

The 19th Wife by David Ebershoff is an amazing story of polygamy in the 19th century in the LDS church, as well as a modern day murder mystery on a compound of fundamentalist LDS who practice plural marriage. Ebershoff is so deft at weaving fact and fiction that the lines blur and I was constantly wondering where fact ended and Ebershoff’s imagination began.

While there’s two stories going on in The 19th Wife, they compliment each other well. The bulk of the novel is a fictionalized version of Ann Eliza Young’s account of her marriage to Brigham Young, including how her mother came to be a part of the Latter-day Saints, Ann Eliza’s childhood, the history of the church, and how she eventually apostasized from the Latter-day Saints and went on a crusade to eliminate polygamy. Ann Eliza really did write an autobiography entitled Wife No. 19, and it is on this that Ebershoff bases his fictional autobiography.

I think Ebershoff may have missed his calling as a history teacher. He has a gift of telling history like a story, which is how I think the best history teachers teach. To this day, I remember stories one of my history teachers used to tell, and where these stories would be dry and dull with their mere facts, they come alive and become something I can remember more than 10 years later. In fact, it is because of one of my history teacher’s stories, the story of Archduke Ferdinand of Austria being assassinated, that I want to name my first daughter Sophia.

The second story in The 19th Wife is a modern day murder mystery. We find that Jordan’s mother is accused of killing her husband…who had scads of other wives, the number of which even Jordan’s mother isn’t sure. Jordan’s mother has been arrested and charged with the murder of her husband, but when she pleads with Jordan to believe that she’s innocent, he believes her because he knows she still believes in the religion, so why would she kill her husband? He sets out to help prove her innocence, because even though she abandoned him five years ago at age 16 on the side of the highway, he still loves her.

What works so well is the history of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints makes you understand why Mormon fundamentalists hold on with such tenacity to plural marriage. When Joseph Smith introduced the idea of plural marriage to the Latter-day Saints, he said that plural marriage was what God wanted, and to not do what God wanted would result in not getting their reward. Brigham Young kept up this mantra, telling people they were doing what God wanted. It was only when the United States started putting pressure on the LDS to end plural marriage that a decision was made in 1890 by the Mormon church to ban plural marriage.

A significant question this book tackles is why it’s okay for the United States to have laws against polygamy, when theoretically we allow people the freedom to do what they want. Ann Eliza Young has an excellent answer to why it is sometimes the responsibility of the government to step in.

This book, despite its 500+ pages, is a quick read. Is it a definitive history of Ann Eliza Young, Joseph Smith, Brigham Young, or the Church of Jesus Christ of Lattter-day Saints (Mormons)? No. Is it an excellent book, based on history but embellished and stretched and fictionalized? Absolutely. You obviously can’t use this book as a basis for your knowledge, but I’d be willing to bet it will encourage you to do your research to find out what is truth and what is fiction.

Rating: 90 out of 100

tlc-graphic-smallerI’ll be going to see David Ebershoff when he comes to my area on June 2nd. I’ll be sure to tell you all about it!

I want to thank Lisa and TLC Book Tours for allowing me to be part of this tour. You can follow along with this tour by checking out the tour schedule.

Additional links: David Ebershoff’s website | More information on Ann Eliza Young | Buy The 19th Wife from Powell’s | Buy The 19th Wife from Amazon (pre-order the paperback!)

I have one paperback copy of The 19th Wife to give away! How cool is David for providing this?! To enter, all you have to do is tell me who your favorite teacher in school was. If you want an extra entry, you can mention this giveaway on Twitter or Stumble this post, just come back and leave an extra comment leaving the link to your tweet or letting me know you stumbled this. This giveaway will be open through May 31st. Good luck!

Here’s a book trailer for The 19th Wife that is FANTASTIC. You know I don’t give my stamp of approval on book trailers easily, so please, watch this video.

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Review – The Best Place To Be by Lesley Dormen

October 28th, 2008 — 6:59pm

The Best Place to Be
by Lesley Dormen
174 pages
Fiction
Published 2007

I jumped on the bandwagon and had the pleasure of reading The Best Place to Be by Lesley Dormen for TLC Book Tours.

The Best Place to Be is about Grace, who at the beginning of the book, is a 50-year-old married woman, no kids. You learn about her the way you might about your friend: not in chronological stories told in a neutral voice, but rather, with stories that skip around in a person’s life and let you in to who they really are.

Ms. Dormen has no hesitation in letting her thoughts flow, often creating run-on sentences punctuated with numerous commas. Check out the opening paragraph, which is one long sentence:

It was that summer, the summer we were fifty and the little Cuban boy went home to no mother, not the first West Nile virus summer but the second, the Hillary and Survivor  summer, you know that summer, the summer the women were manhandled in the park and the kids lined up for Harry Potter, the summer we were fifty, all of us, fifty and holding, the ones a little older and the ones a little younger, fifty and holding, like thirty and holding only fifty, and it was summer and the ones who were rich were and the ones who weren’t weren’t but we were all fifty, every one of us, and holding.

BREATHE, LESLEY! Holy smokes!

I was sad when I never became very attached to Grace. Really, isn’t that what reading’s about? To forge new friendships with the characters? And I never really liked  or disliked  Grace; I felt I was more of an observer than a participant. Like when Grace goes and buys thousands of dollars of clothes and then calls her mom up for money. Sorry, Grace, I just don’t get that. I don’t do that, my friends don’t do that…why would you do that??

Grace seems to have an issue with men, though whether this comes from the lack of her father’s involvement or her own issues is up for debate. Her father was a dead beat dad, and while she had a good stepfather, she still yearns for the approval of her birth dad. And if that’s not enough, her mother is self-centered and lacking in parental qualities. Here’s an excerpt from when Grace is 18 and in college and she receives a letter from her mom:

Hi Sweetie!

Just a quickie before I dash out to the dentist….Things at home are relatively quiet. Alex (Grace’s brother) and I had a run-in Sunday night after you and I spoke. He is definitely troubled and wants discipline so badly. He keeps telling me I have no control over him and I really feel this upsets him. He asks, “What are you going to do about it?” I don’t have the answer. I can only hope for wisdom and patience.

Love,
Mother

In addition to Grace’s mom being off her parental rocker, Grace and her mom have a strange relationship. Take, for example, this exchange:

I called my mother and asked her if she wanted lunch or dinner on her birthday.

She said, “If we have dinner, what will I do with the whole day?”

I wanted to know why my mother felt entitled to a whole day but I changed the subject. I told my mother I had a new haircut I liked.

???

One of the themes running through the book is her need to look at the past, leaving her unhappy with what she has in the present. Many people never end up happy with what they have in the present, and whether Grace is able to find that place, a “best place to be,” well, you’ll have to read the book to find out. :D

Check out these other reviews for The Best Place to Be! I’ve even linked to the actual review, ’cause, well, I’m anal like that.

Wednesday, October 1st:  Wormbook
(reprinted with permission at Books on the Brain)
Friday, October 3rd:  Maw Books
Monday, October 6th:  Diary of an Eccentric
Wednesday, October 8th:  Devourer of Books
Friday, October 10th:  Life and Times of a “New” New Yorker
Monday, October 13th:  Books I Done Read
Wednesday, October 15th:  From the Mixed-Up Files
Friday, October 17th:  Bloody Hell!  It’s a Book Barrage!
Monday, October 20th:  A Girl Walks Into a Book Store… (alas, no post. :-( )
Wednesday, October 22nd:  The Book Lady
Monday, October 27th:  Bookgirl’s Nightstand

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Holy Tours, Batman!

September 1st, 2008 — 5:10pm

Lisa and I have been working really hard on TLC Book Tours…and I think it shows! We’ve got a bunch of books touring in October/November. It’s been so exciting! Finally…my hard work pays off for ME instead of for my BOSS. What a concept.

I wanted to let you know about the tours for Kathleen McCleary’s House and Home and Kathryn Maughan’s Did I Expect Angels? There’s some tours stops at blogs I’m SURE you haven’t seen…so go check them out!

Kathleen McCleary’s TLC Book Tours TOUR STOPS:

Wednesday, September 3rd: Hooked on Houses

Friday, September 5th: It’s All About Books

Monday, September 8th: The Literate Housewife

Wednesday, September 10th: Books and Cooks

Friday, September 12th: Breaking the Spine

Monday, September 15th: She Is Too Fond Of Books

Wednesday, September 17th: Caribou’s Mom

Thursday, September 18th:  Age 30 – A Year of Books

Monday, September 22nd: Booking Mama

Tuesday, September 23rd:  The Cottage Nest

Wednesday, September 24th: The Inside Cover

Friday, September 26th: In the Shadow of Mt. TBR

Monday, September 29th:  Displaced Beach Bums

Kathryn Maughan’s TLC Book Tours TOUR STOPS:

Tuesday, September 2nd: Booking Mama

Friday, September 5th: The Friendly Book Nook

Tuesday, September 9th: Book Club Classics!

Thursday, September 11th: Mabel’s House

Friday, September 12th: A Patchwork of Books

Tuesday, September 16th: Bookfoolery and Babble

Friday, September 19th: dontcallmebecky

Tuesday, September 23rd: Catholic Bibliophagist

Friday, September 26th: MollyCoddle

Monday, September 29th: Blue Yonder

Tuesday, September 30th: Boston Bibliophile

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I’m Having a Baby!

August 1st, 2008 — 12:49am

Starting a business IS like having a baby! Okay, maybe not a REAL baby, but Lisa and I have just launched a virtual book tour business, TLC Book Tours! I think we’re both about to burst out of our skin from excitement.

Lisa made an announcement yesterday on her blog, and me, well, I’m just getting around to it. I’ve had so much to do!

We’ve got two tours already: one with Kathryn Maughan, author of Did I Expect Angels? and another with Kathleen McCleary, author of House and Home!

Want to check out the super-secret-but-not-secret-anymore-site? Here ’tis! We love hearing from our book blogging buddies! Let us know what you think!

Is that enough exclamations for you! ‘Cause I could do more! See! You’re lucky you can’t see me in person…’cause I’ve been dancing around the house like a crazy person. :D

I promise the next time I post that title, I will actually be pregnant. Preggers. Prego. Pregarama. Okay, I made that last one up.

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